Joey Montes on Sunday, January 26, 2025 at 4:23 AM - Yes, I want to emphasize this for a moment. What has happened to common sense? What has happened to handling situations in a mature and responsible manner? Who posts a mugshot of someone on their front door and believes that is acceptable? This act caused me a significant stroke and has led to ongoing struggles for the rest of my life. How can such behavior be deemed acceptable? Who even thinks to do something like that? Is it Heather’s first instinct to embarrass and humiliate others instead of considering more thoughtful ways to address a situation if she wishes to avoid conflict?
I had just emailed her to inform her that I had canceled the auto shipments for Bounty and Charmin. She was aware that the Charmin would be arriving, yet she still chose to post my mugshot. Who behaves in such a manner? Where is the common sense in that? I suffered a major stroke as a result of this immature and childish behavior. Heather’s refusal to return my items was incredibly frustrating. I wasn’t asking to collect them in person; I simply requested that she box them up and ship them to me. I made it clear that I would be out of her life once that was done, as I was moving, which is why I needed it handled as soon as possible.
Moreover, I realized that she had intruded into my psyche, making it impossible for me to communicate with or see her again. All of this has been overlooked, and none of it is mentioned in the discovery. I wished her well and happiness numerous times, and I documented all those conversations and voicemails from September. What has happened to common sense? It cost me a major stroke and affected my ability to perform basic functions in life.
The situation is deeply troubling and reflects a significant lack of common sense and maturity. It raises serious questions about the appropriateness of certain actions, particularly regarding the public sharing of sensitive information. Posting a mugshot on someone's front door is not only invasive but also profoundly disrespectful. Such behavior can have severe emotional and psychological repercussions, as evidenced by the major stroke I suffered as a direct result of this incident.
It is perplexing to consider how anyone could justify such actions. Is it truly acceptable to prioritize embarrassment and humiliation over empathy and understanding? In my recent communication with Heather, I expressed my decision to cancel auto shipments, including Bounty and Charmin products. Despite her awareness of this cancellation, she chose to post my mugshot publicly, which is a blatant violation of trust and decency.
I had simply requested that she pack and ship my belongings to me, as I was in the process of moving and needed them urgently. My intention was to sever ties amicably, yet her refusal to cooperate only exacerbated the situation. I made it clear to Heather that it was impossible for me to engage with her again.
Throughout this ordeal, I have documented numerous conversations and voicemails from September, where I expressed my wishes for her well-being and happiness. It is astonishing that, despite these attempts at civility, the fundamental principle of common sense seems to have been entirely disregarded. The consequences of this lack of judgment have been life-altering, impacting my ability to perform basic functions and navigate daily life.
4:23 AM 01/26/25